I heard a song once. It said "There will always be second chances and you'll always be on your first try" Well at first I did not understand this. What the heck did they mean? and to be perfectly honest I still don't fully understand. I bet you're now asking why am I writing about something I don't understand? Well 1. I don't FULLY understand. Totally different then not understanding. 2. That's not what the blog is about.
Here is what I believe they mean though. You'll get second chances but you're always on your frist try because you only have one life. You see the people that care about you (friends, family, the hobo that you just gave a nickle to etc.) will give you a second chance when you want. Not unlimited ones. Only a moron would get hurt twice by the same person because of the same reason (For future record people who have done this don't feel bad because I have too, but that's a story for another blog) Just remember if you take a second chance from someone, you better give them a damn second chance when they mess up.
I also like the saying excuses are like assholes, everyone has one. Okay yeah sometimes there are legit excuses but here is the thing "I couldn't do that because I ate a banana instead" is never a good excuse. Maybe because bananas don't take that long to eat or you can put your banana down for a second to do something. It honestly "I couldn't because I fell down the steps and got knocked out" is a much better excuse, because you literally can't do anything. So what I say is if you have a crappy excuse don't expect a second chance, because it's just not going to happen buddy.
So my final word about second chances, don't expect them without a good excuse but always expect to give them!